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My Wife Always Complains

The most common questions I hear men voicing about their marriage.

Why does she complain so much about me? And what can I do about it?

Maybe you’ve been married or in a relationship for many years – 5, 10, or 20 years.

Do you ever wonder when will her complaining stop?

Maybe you think to yourself, I do my best and it’s still not enough.

Or I’m tired of all the nagging.

Or you feel your character is being attacked consistently.

If so, it’s easy to feel as if nothing you do is enough for your wife.

What can you do about her complaints?

Most guys try to stop the complaining. It’s often done in one of several ways.

They give their partner lip service, and stop taking her seriously.

They withdraw to try not to deal with her.

Or they try to please her.

If you’ve done any of these, you know they don’t work.

They focus on the problem and not the solution.

What is the solution to get your wife to stop complaining?

Focus on yourself and not so much on her. Get clear on what your emotions are telling you in response to her complaints.

From there, you’ll get a trailhead to what’s really going on – to what you need and what you want in response.

You can’t just be focused on her needs.

Being a confident man in relationship requires you to know what’s going on with you.

A major bonus is that will give you more understanding of what’s going on with her, why all the complaints.

Because underneath her complaint is merely an implicit request.

That’s right, a request that she’s not speaking.

In the video below, discover how to decipher the request in her complaint to go after what you really want in your relationship.

Do you want to get free of your partner’s complaints?

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I extend this special invitation to you to join me in the beautiful Blue Ridge Mountains just outside Asheville, North Carolina.

The Confident Man’s Path In Relationship Retreat will transform how you approach your relationship.

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