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The Hero Or The Victim?

Every day, we wake up and have the opportunity to tend to our kingdom. How are you tending to yours in these challenging times?

Do you show up as the hero of your own story? Or the victim?

When it’s the latter, do you even notice?

Or do you unconsciously go down the rabbit hole of victim consciousness?

Time out! No shame. Instead, ask yourself…

How can I use the moment …when I’m not feeling strong, when I’m feeling like things are happening to me, not for me… how can I use it to get back to hero consciousness? 

First, you have to know when you’re in which – the hero or the victim within. Check out these actions below that speak to both.  Which ones apply to you?

Hero Consciousness…

  • Empowering yourself with good media & information
  • Practicing self care daily – exercise, meditation, breath work & more
  • Connecting with friends & family online daily
  • Being strong for your frustrated kids stuck in the house all day
  • Helping others in need emotionally or financially
  • Reviewing your finances & getting your financial kingdom in order
  • Looking at, considering, and creating future work/financial opportunities
  • Confronting your fears to ask for financial help from others

Victim consciousness…

  • Abdicating from self-responsibility to the despair of the times
  • Isolating from communicating daily with others
  • Altering through substances to avoid what you fear or don’t want to deal with
  • Stressing yourself out with indiscriminate & unfiltered social media or news
  • Worrying incessantly about money & how you’re gonna get through this.
  • Cowering in fear of asking for help from others

 Stay safe. Stay healthy.

Learn more about victim or hero consciousness through my free online classes & presentations. To get more info, sign up on my email list below (mobile) and to your left (laptop).

Upcoming opportunities for the week of March 30.

1. Tuesday at 9am mtn time, join me on zoom for the 2nd Men’s Empowerment Call. Or forward to a man you know.

2. Friday at 9am mtn time, all genders, join me for another Facebook Live. Like my page now to be notified when I go live.  Missed the last FB live on rising through grief, anxiety, and fear? Check it out now.

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